We love celebrating pregnancy and motherhood over here, but we also know it isn’t all rainbows and unicorns.  Conception, pregnancy, and postpartum can do a number on us physically and mentally.  And sometimes in those moments, a thoughtful gift can be the perfect pick me up.  So next time you, or someone you love, doesn’t seem to recognize who they see in the mirror, remind them of the queen they are–and pop something in the mail to perk ’em up.

Mommee Coffee Gift Box, $29.99: Designed by moms, for moms, Mommee Coffee’s organic, low acid coffee is perfect for conception, pregnancy, and nursing.  Give the gift of caffeine in the perfect dose: choose from decaf, 1/4 caf,  half-caf, or full caf to suit mama’s needs (and limits).

HATCH Collection Belly Besties, $98:  Help your favorite preggo embrace the bump with this fun, out-of-the-ordinary gift featuring stretch-mark busting belly masks, belly oil to beat the itch, and–wait for it–temporary belly tattoos to flaunt that bod.

Daily Harvest 9-Cup Gift Box, $75: Through morning sickness, food aversions, heartburn, and nursing round the clock, women still need their nutrients.  Pick up the tab on 9 cups from daily harvest, and let her fill it with her favorites.

Coyuchi Unisex Waffle Robe, $98:  A robe that gets better (read: softer) with washing? Yes, please.  This waffle robe is soft enough for the spa and sturdy enough to handle leaky boobs, leaky diapers, and worn-it-for-3-days-in-a-row funk, totally judgment-free.

Mejuri Mini Hoop, $29 When mama isn’t feeling herself, the perfect gold hoop is the ultimate pick-me-up.  This one is ideal for everyday wear, even with a curious (read: grabby) babe.  14K gold, won’t break the bank, perfectly modern and practical design.  Talk about a trifecta.